Recently realized this adds unnecessary pressure to myself of something I cannot control. There're so many things on my plate. Having to satisfy and getting everyone to like me means I'm don't have my own thoughts. Pleasing everyone means you are doing what everyone want you to do but not doing things you think you should do?
I'm learning "I'm who I'm. It is too bad you don't like it". That way, at the very least, I have my own point-of-view and have character.